IHOW - Ramona's Subspace

 Posted on July 3, 2025  |  8 minutes  |  1680 words  |  Ramona

We chased our pleasures here Dug our treasures there But can you still recall The time we cried? Break on through to the other side Break on through to the other side Jim Morrison What does subspace mean? Looking it up online, one finds some descriptions, some testimonies, though, as with much related to BDSM, there are many different takes on the matter. However, all have one aspect in common. Subspace is an altered state of consciousness, where a submissive enters a different headspace, a different mindset, most of the times during an intense session. [Read More]
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IHOW - Mental Pain

 Posted on April 25, 2025  |  6 minutes  |  1075 words  |  Jadey and Ramona

Part 2 – Mental Pain I hate the feminine sadness because it is the product of sexuality Emil Cioran Those who have read my first piece about pain in the words of a self-proclaimed masochist know that it dealt with physical pain and how I feel about it. This second part is about something much deeper and much more complicated: mental pain. Some might wonder why I am writing about it and what mental pain has to do with masochism in the context of BDSM in general. [Read More]
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IHOW Just Another Day in Rammy Land

IHOW Just Another Day in Rammy Land

 Posted on March 29, 2025  |  11 minutes  |  2186 words  |  Ramona

Read on to learn what Ramona did with these. She said, do you see what I see, be careful to choose Be careful what you wish for the dream may come true When I lay the card down will it turn up the fool? Will it turn up sorrow? If it does, then you lose Steven Edward Duren 9:30 AM Morning. The sun has been brushing my face through my east-facing window for a while now, but I am so lazy. [Read More]
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In Her Own Words: Pain

 Posted on March 21, 2025  |  4 minutes  |  703 words  |  Jadey and Ramona

Pt. 1 – Physical Pain Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like it rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Three Days Grace As a self-proclaimed masochist I often hear people say “Don’t worry, she likes it” when they see me subjected to various forms of physical pain. Be it the timeless classic impact play or the more versatile electro play, all have two things in common: they hurt and they are sexually arousing. [Read More]
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